Threesomes and other Multiples

Adding another person or a series of people into a sexual relationship can be extremely erotic. Men have often fantasized about having two or more women in bed together. Likewise, some women cannot help but be curious about being with more than one man at the same time. When you add in the option that one or both person in a couple could be bisexual you have an even greater chance for the interest or need for threesome or a possible orgy.

If you are interested in threesomes or larger sexual groups and your partner is as well then it might just be a question of finding that right person to add into the group. You should initiate a considerable amount of communication with your partner before you jump into any type of threesome, relationship-wise or even if it is just sexual.

Determine what you hope to gain from any possible orgy you might have. Some questions you might ask yourself include:

• What are your interests in threesomes?

• Do you want to have them often and with the same people?

• How do you plan to handle safe sex?

• What does your lover hope to gain from threesomes or any type of orgy environment?

• Are these people you bring in going to be people you have sex with separately, as well or will this just be group sex?

Threesomes can be a fulfilling experience that allows you to bond with people on a more intimate and spiritual level. It can also take your sexual experiences to places you have never been before. Of course, that is not to say it is something you should take lightly.

Multiple sex partners and parties can be great fun but that does not mean the element of danger is absent. Have a plan for safe sex. Consider what you will be doing when group sex comes up. You don’t need a surefire plan as far as choreography goes but you should make sure you have condoms, spermicidal creams, and any necessary safe sex items that you use when you’re alone with your lover.

If you try threesomes once you may find that it is not for you and your partner. Take the time after your sex session to talk to your lover and find out how they feel. If you both like it you might find that it is a fetish and is something that you might do more often. However, if you do not like it or your partner is uncomfortable it is important to have that information out in the open so your relationship can progress at a safe and comfortable level.

You will come to find that threesomes are not for everyone. It takes a huge amount of trust and security to bring extra people into your bed and to watch your lover touch them. However, for those that are secure in their relationship, interested, and open-minded it can be an incredible release that enhances your relationship tenfold.