Lips, Mouth, and Kissing

Nothing says romance like kissing. From soft sensual kisses to the sexy and sometimes tricky French kiss people have fallen in love with kissing over the years. People that are waiting for their first kiss are nervous at the thought of it. Nervous is not necessary, though it is understandable, especially if you have never been given the tips to succeed when caught in a sexy lip lock.

The first and perhaps the most important thing to remember is that you should use your entire mouth when kissing. This is not always going to be appropriate, but when it comes to sharing the passion, you should be using more than just your lips. Use your tongue! Put some strength behind your kiss. If you don’t, the kiss will not be as memorable as it could have been.

The lips and mouth are obvious erogenous zones for both men and women. This is why they can be used for much more than just kissing and sucking to receive and deliver pleasure. They can stimulate acupressure points very effectively through biting, nibbling, pinching and blowing with variable temperatures. A dry tongue or lips can be used as precise, surgical instruments providing feedback as they will prod the glands or agitate the epidermis in very sensitive body areas.

Now that you have a few of the fundamentals of kissing down, it is important to try to be a little more adventurous in your kissing style. As you can imagine offering a little power and finesse behind your pucker will pay off in the end.

If you have never kissed someone, start out slow. Ease your way into it with slow, sensual, lip pressing. We are going to assume though that you are somewhat more experienced as we offer the following tips.

The first thing to remember is nothing else exists to you, but this moment. When you are kissing someone focus on that. Concentrate on the pleasure you feel, you are allowing the other person to feel, and the bond between the two of you. If you are kissing someone and thinking about other things your kiss will be lacking. If you are not into it, you cannot assume the other party will be either.

Don’t assume that kissing means just kissing on the lips. You can place your lips anywhere on a person and kiss. It’s just a simple pucker after all, as long as you have the confidence and basic ability. Kiss your lover in other spots. Try trailing your lips down their neck. If you are kissing a woman, try kissing her wrist or along her collarbone. The body has plenty of hidden erogenous zones. Find out where they are, and wow your partner with some attention by your lips.

When kissing on the lips try to establish self-confidence. If you are kissing with your mouth open, realize that you are looking for a French kiss. If you want to play tongue to tongue, explore with excitement. Tease your tongue over theirs in a circular motion, attempt to chase their tongue playfully, or suck lightly on their tongue before breaking that segment of the kiss.

Do not forget to pay attention to the lips. Try capturing the bottom lip of your lover in your mouth and sucking on it lightly. Trail your teeth over it for a sensuous sensation and flick your tongue in their mouth before releasing their lip.

Kissing is the ultimate expression of interest and vitality in a relationship. Show your lover that you want them by experimenting. Kiss various parts of their body. Take your time by massaging their form with your lips. Kiss like you mean it. Unless you do, it won’t mean anything to either of you as soon as the kiss has ended.