Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is the female version of oral sex. It is known as many things by many people, but whatever slang you choose does not necessarily matter. It is the technique and action that really counts. Women either love cunnilingus or hate it. Those that hate it are generally self-conscious though there is usually no reason for that.

Self-conscious women usually have the same complaints. Many of these women worry about their smell and taste. They are nervous that their flesh will taste bad or that they will smell bad. This is a common worry though as long as you are washing regularly with soap and water this shouldn’t be a big problem.

The point of cunnilingus is similar to that of fellatio. It is to have a gratifying sexual experience. This activity is meant to be enjoyed as your lover takes the time to explore your most intimate spots in hopes of helping you to achieve orgasm.

If you are performing cunnilingus and are new to it you may not be positive what to do. There is much more to it than just licking at the skin. In fact, the more interested you are and the more fun you have with it, the more the woman is going to enjoy it.

Try teasing her before you get into the actual act of cunnilingus. Give her a body massage and pay close attention to her thighs. You could even rub her sweet spots before you begin massaging them with your tongue. If she is hairy and is keen to the idea of shaving, consider shaving for her. Many women find it incredibly erotic to be shaved by their lover.

This is excellent for you because it will give her plenty of pleasure before you get down and dirty with cunnilingus. Remember when you begin performing oral sex on her that women love vibrations. You might be thinking that your tongue isn’t a vibrator and you’re probably right. However, a few well placed humming sounds will make your lips and tongue vibrate. She will feel those vibrations and go wild.

Humming is just one of the things you can do to entice your lover during oral sex. Consider the use of heat warming, flavored massage oils. This will allow you the tasty pleasure of whatever flavor you choose. For her, it brings on the feelings of warm, tingling sensations from the oil. You can rub these oils in for a moment or blow on them to activate the heat. Chances are she will appreciate the teasing sensations that this provides.

Cunnilingus provides women with a chance to receive more clitoral stimulation. One of the main reasons women love oral sex is for the attention that is often paid to their clitoris during this time. Men should take all the time they can by rubbing, licking, and toying with this sensitive bundle of nerves. In many cases, the more attention you show this area, the harder her orgasm will be as a result.